You’re engaged, you’ve started planning the wedding, and now comes the bridal shower in your honour. Although your wedding party generally takes on the role  of “lead planners” many brides and bridal party question the do’s and don’ts of the Bridal Shower. Today we’re going to answer some of these daunting questions so you feel more prepared to take on the challenge!

Who should host the shower?

Well there was a time when it was considered a “faux pas” for the bride’s family to host the bridal shower, as it seemed you were soliciting for gifts. Now a days, anyone but the couple is more than welcome to host the event. 

Who should be on the guest list?

Rule of thumb for this intimate affair: those invited to the bridal shower should also be invited to the wedding. With that being said, should your co-workers choose to throw you a shower, for example, you are not obligated to invite them. 

When are the invitations sent out?

We recommend sending out the invitations 3 – 4 weeks in advance. This allows guest ample time to review the registry and purchase a gift.

What about decor, games and refreshments?

That part is left up to your bridesmaids’ creative side: games, food, decor… the options are endless. Check out Pinterest for more ideas!